I have to say that when we were doing other stuff, H was totally out of my mind and I think that maybe I have come to the place of visualizing my life without him and seeing that it will be ok!
That is why we GAL! Just because we can see a life without them doesn't mean that we don't wish things had turned out differently. BUt being able to make our life independent of them reminds ourselves we don't NEED them, we WANT them. And that we CAN be happy without them.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
