Just wanted to say that your H is acting very nutty because he is with the OW. If he was never like this before, then it is more evidence that the A is what is making him this way.

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He's trying to cakewalk and leave his options open. He thinks he can move away, have this fling, then come back when he's all done.


haha about cakeWALK instead of cakeEAT. I do agree that he wants to have this fling. and then come back later.

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I think you need to shake him up a bit. Know any guys (preferably cute and single) who can come over and help you fix stuff or help with the baby?


Yeah I always wanted to have some neutral guy friends help me and S that my stbxh didn't know. If I had told people at work, maybe their Hs could have helped me or something. Hmm. Worth a shot I guess. What do you think, Piano?

You can always set this as a goal in a few weeks. Right now you are just trying to get through having your H over to visit your D and not throw things at him, right? smile

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004