Does DB'ing work if OW is playing the victim?!?!

[xin]

I've prayed for God to give H strength to come home if OW rejects him. Before H left for picnic, he said he had a bad weekend (which i knew already since i overheard his phone call with OW on Saturday night). I told him I had a bad year.

I'm kind of over H's threat to kill himself. He won't be doing it because of me so my conscience is clear.