YOu need to find a social worker instaed of a shrink for starters.. One who understands the complexities of how difficult marriage can be and the destructive escapes people use to avoid dealing with a marriage falling off the tracks...
Most FT will give you a brief write up of their focus and education...
My advice is to meet with them for a 15 min consult and YOU INTERVIEW them for the JOB... That's what you are doing is HIRING them to WORK for you... You have a right to know if they are QUALIFIED
Most GOOD FT' will meet iwth you for 15 mins and no charge you for it... or at least answer a few qustiosn on the phone about how they deal with infidelity
If the FT won't give you any background info withotu a full paid session find a new FT becuase they are there to take your money and not there to help your marriage
WE are here every day for FREE... THe LEAST a professional can do is the same
