Right... That always stops the drug addicts, alcoholics, and compulsive gamblers in their tracks... When you tell them how you feel they drop their addiction and run for the nearest rehab center when you do that.

Note the sarcasm above.

My bet is your family therapist is a psychology major rather than a social worker... And that she has next to no experience dealing with infidelity or has done no research on teh subject...

I can quote you names of texts, authors, and statistics on this subject if you want to... But you will be putting your marriage in the hands of that FT or the real world experience of these forum members who have ALL dealt with infideilty in one form or another.. the UGLY parts of it, not just the beginning phone calls to three am but the UGLY sexual parts too...

It's your marriage, but I wouldn't roll teh dice with the advice she's given you.. just ask anyoen on this forum and tehy will tell you that FT is a fool and just taking your money.