Originally Posted By: Allen A
I don't agree with your FT...

There are two camps on infidleity : Hardball and Softball... Most experts in infidelity that I have read are in hardball and treat infidelity as an addiction... Your WIfe's is just starting up so its not that bad yet... but if you play hardball here you run the risk of it going into full on sexual affair wtih all the sleazy details that go with it.


Maybe I missed something through my reading... how is going hardball now going to risk pushing it to a full on sexual affair (if it isn't there already...)?


M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done