There are two camps on infidleity : Hardball and Softball... Most experts in infidelity that I have read are in hardball and treat infidelity as an addiction... Your WIfe's is just starting up so its not that bad yet... but if you play hardball here you run the risk of it going into full on sexual affair wtih all the sleazy details that go with it.
Maybe I missed something through my reading... how is going hardball now going to risk pushing it to a full on sexual affair (if it isn't there already...)?
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done