She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

[steady]

SM, what I meant was she isn't getting the reaction out of me she wants or is expecting.

This pisses them off more than anything. They need to push the buttons and get negative reactions in order to keep feeding their rationalizations of why they are doing what they are doing.

She tells me and my D15 how proud she's been of me for making all these changes, then the other day she goes on her rant and say's I haven't changed at all.

Happened to me Thanksgiving of '08. Told me how grateful she was that I was there, how proud she and her family was of me, how her mom wished her father would change..blah, blah, blah. Two months later, she bails. Wait till time passes and they can't keep switching up the shells. It may be interesting.

This is the first time since she first dropped the bomb that she's starting to become mean again. I'm maintaining my cool and actually looking forward to moving on. It's unfortunate but necessary at this point.

Her meanness is just to get the reaction she wants so she can feel better about what she's doing.

I love her still, but I would never be with this woman as she is now.

I can totally relate to this.

Her and my daughters will be moving out in the next week and the house will be rented out. I'll find myself something else to rent or buy, and move on.

Hopefully this will finally bring me some sort of peace and closure.

It will bring you change. Closure depends on what you do with it. If you keep moving forward it will help with closure.