It's hard to get around to everyone, Sunny. To be honest, I really don't have much of a "system," but if I don't get to your thread EARLY, right when you start here . . . and if you're a pretty prolific poster, with lots of action on your thread . . . I never do. Cuz I can't possibly read all of the backstory, and get caught up.
If you check how many I post on, it's really not that many -- maybe 10% of the threads of less in Newcomers & Infidelity.
