Originally Posted By: someguy1233
Here's a question that's been going through my head while working on the script. (sure am getting hungry... when's dinner? LOL. Glad I'm almost smiling for a minute today.)

My FT advised not to out her to family and friends. She said it'd be incredibly embarassing and that it's something that should be kept between the two of us. She said it would make such a rift in our "relationship" that it'd be very difficult to recover from. Is my FT nuts? Or does she have a valid point?


Definitely good to smile!!!

As for the FT... What is her stance on treating infidelity? If she's more of the softball approach type, she may not be the best in helping you deal with this. (Not if you intend to play hardball!) Allen can be more help here, but not all FT are the same or have the same philosophy on treating affairs. As Allen says, the hardball ones know it is an addiction. What does she suggest you do instead?