is there anyone on OM's end you can lean on to embarass him and put some pressure on him?
AT his workplace maybe?
I know where OM works, and I know he is good friends with many of his co-workers. I've been debating the idea of outing him publicly in front of them.
I've talked to OM's parents once or twice over many many years, but I do know how to get a hold of them.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done