Thanks, Allen. That's kind of you to be willing to still give me advice when I've blown it so much. I will let his fam know that I may still be willing to work on it . . . unfortunately, they were in on my emotional roller coaster of "i'm done." They're not communicating with him right now at all, either.
Oh, and I inadvertantly exposed to our whole neighborhood. One neighbor asked me what was going on and I divulged and as I was driving out to meet a friend for dinner, they were all outside hanging (our neighborhood is a front yard neighborhood), and decided to let me know they're all on "Team Melody." If he were to come back he's going to have to have guts of steel because EVERYONE knows . . . not sure how WAS manage the aftershock of affairs and everyone knowing . . . other than to run and start over elsewhere which is what my H is doing.
Do you think I should cancel the apt. with the realtor? Or make him think I'm heading towards divorce. FYI - he has changed his bank account and direct deposit and told me I need to ask for what I need to make house bills. Of course we will be in financial ruin if we try to support our house and his apt. at the same time for long . . .
