I will not tolerate this... I love you and respect you but this is incredibly disrespectful... leave the marital home, you are not welcome here unless you chose to participate in this marriage like an adult... If our situations were reversed you wouldnt' accept being delegated to a Safety Net while I comparison shop and I am not gonig to accept that either... Respect for each other is Imperative here.. Either you are giong to extend that as I am or you know where the door is.