SG, everyone says this... Everyone is afraid to play hardball because they are araid your wife will leave...
Going SOFT on her got you into the short end of an affair triangle... And you want to go back for another round?
Your call, but I would hit home HARD that romping about iwth OM is COUNTER-INTUITIVE to her "need a week to sort things out" deal...
And I will warn you becuase OM pulled this stunt on my wife... She tells him to back off for a week and he calls her every night to say "I missed you.. I am sorry I am calling but I just can't help myself..." and SHE eats it UP drop by drop
She's setting you up man.. and you are gonna walk right into that trap...
Hit her HARD
Family therapy = a must OM is gone = a must
Or SHE can MOVE OUT...
If she offers both of the two earlier then you offer her SIX months instead of a week
Tha'ts a sweet deal in my opinion.. If she turns her nose up at that you go hardball bigtime and hit teh OM with every bullet you have or this is going to get VERY UGLY VERY FAST