BTW, I truly appreciate your script examples. I'm modifying them now to suite my needs.

I feel I'll need to bring some notes with me to this conversation... I've never been good at memorization.

Is it bad to leave notes behind for her? Maybe just bullet points of what I'm trying to get across. I know some people shut down in conversation and won't actively listen. Maybe giving her something to review later will help my points sink in?

M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done