I have been listening to what you guys are saying. The thing I don't understand is how can I GAL and all that stuff you are recommending if I need to move from this house, town...
wouldn't it be counterproductive to spend all that time doing those things here if I plan to move many hours away to be around my family when the D happens?
And I know what you're going to say..maybe the D won't happen. I don't want it to happen but I also don't see how we can live together when he is searching for someone else and all the other stuff he's doing, with me waiting for the other shoe to drop. Even if I got a job, got friends, let him do his thing..all that stuff..when he finds what he's looking for, I will be stuck scrambling around trying to find a job and place to live in the town where I want to move, and the other things I keep harping about. What am I not understanding about what you are all telling me?
If I change the financial process we have set up it will alert him to the fact that I'm setting things up to do something and I'm afraid it will set up a sh$$storm. The atty, the C..those things I can do. But I feel stuck with the other stuff.
