You're welcome! It's natural to feel that way. I certainly have felt that way in my sitch but now know it's my job to take responsibility for my half and no more. I've apologized for my faults and made it clear that I regret them: not through begging or pleading, but apologizing sincerely...once!) I also made sure my intent for the future (in changing those things) is known: again...once! If WAS uses your faults against you continually, it's only because they are trying to justify and rationalize their own bad behavior. You can feel guilty no more!
