Thanks for the reminder, Sunny D. I read these things and on an intellectual level, I "get it." But it's hard to hear it from my H - because it is reality to him at this point in time.
I know he's lost right now . . . confused . . . alienated . . . embarassed . . . he can't stay that way forever, right?
Just hope he'll come to his senses sometime soon. Can't decide if I should give some signal that I'm still willing to work on it - or if that is pursuing.
