Unfortunately, I know why she went elsewhere. She and I had become so preoccupied with everything else going on in our lives (and I do believe her negtivism towards me starting mid-pregnancy) that we didn't make tame to be together and keep the emotional and physical connection alive.
I hate myself for not realizing it sooner and if given the chance I KNOW we could make a silk ourse out of this. But, generally, once the woman is emotionally "done", it's pretty much DONE.
I've seen it and suffered this before. In fact, my description was "they break up with you months before but don't actually tell you until they have set up their next adventure. Then the guy is scrambling to play catch up and deal with all the emotion at once." that's why almost every guy here uses the word "blindsided"
The only good thing I have so far is I now know what it is and won't let it happen again-regardless of whether it is W or not.
