Par: Thanks... I felt blindsided by it. She never voiced any problems. The last time we were together was among some of the most tender moments we ever had. She cried at the airport and promised to join me soon.... even to the point of saying "You keep worrying like you don't think I'm coming with you. Nothing could keep me away".
It wasn't like we'd been arguing for months and something finally snapped... she left.
Moon: ADHD could definitely cause big problems - some of the stuff you're mentioning sounds almost bi-polar to me. You're right, it doesn't help, but it's nice to know some kind of a reason to justify behaviour.
I wouldn't say that I'm detaching better.... I didn't sleep at all last night. I still haven't replied to her and it's been nearly a week.... but I just can't think of what to say. She doesn't seem to put any gravitas to what I talk about, and just wants light fluffy nothing... if she even wants that.
My imagination is doing stupid things too, and I'm having trouble shutting it up.
I tried reclaiming my good mood from last weekend yesterday, but it didn't come. So instead I'm just sleep deprived and moody... ready for work?
Me: 29 H: 25 T:7yrs M:5yrs
Bomb: 23/04/10
Had no idea anything was wrong. Cheated so she could end it without talking.
