Heartbroken and needing help!

[irishblessings]

Wow Lin - you have no idea how much I needed to read your post! Thank you for sharing your experiences - it helps so much and I know I have to establish my own life. I have given my all this time around - nothing left. Now, I have to build something for myself and my kids.

Just wondering if anyone else feels that part of being a good father or good mother is being a good husband or good wife? I have a hard time separating the two - (in the best worlds I guess)