a. Both of you not distrated from a third party b. Both of you attending famliy therapy to work on improving how you participate in your marriage c. Both of you working together to explore a possible reconcilliation
Give that at LEAST six months under those circumstances and then invite her to make another check...
THIS is the formula for a CHANCE at marital repair...
Anything LESS than this is unfair...
If she agrees to the above but asks you to live elsewhere you might consider it... I don't reccomend it, but if she insists on it I would tell her if you find any indication that there is anything going on with you and OM that you are moving back IN and SHE moves OUT... IMMEDIATELY
