Ok so she came over with dissolution paperwork. We argued a little bit about the BS that happened last night and the lies, but I stood my ground. Told her that I don't want to end this marriage and asked her for a year of separation so i can figure out my options. She seems in agreement.
She's pretty resentful towards me for all the past things. She made a few snide remarks that showed it. She says she loves me as a person, but not in love with me. She also said that no matter how long goes by she has made up her mind that she is done and doesn't want to be married anymore. "I will not change my mind, once I make up my mind that's it"
Okay, so I'm cutting off all contact and going to change myself. I love her she knows it and I do want to save our marriage, but my hands are tied now. If in a year she truly doesn't change her mind at least I can prepare for it.
So based on this information and her being extremely stubborn about changing her mind thing....What's the best approach on setting her free?
