That's why I said half way Sunny.. tha'ts the best you are gonna get from me for a cheating wayward
SG...
This is YOUR marriage TOO... The idea that SHE can distance herself from BOTH of you for ONE WEEK and sort ANYTHING OUT is unfair and I would tell her so.
I would tell her outright that you KNOW and that comparing some secret affair with OM to being married to you for a year is a ridiculous comparison and you won't accept her making that decision independently in a week...
I would tell her if she's going to make independent comparisons based on some secret affair then you aren't interested in moving out. But I would suggest to her that she DOES need time and offer her something reasonable like I suggested before.
If she tries to sneak OM into that at all I would give her a firm NO and WALK OUT of the conversation half done. If she is gonig to push for him to be part of the negotiation in any way then EXIT the conversation... Just tell her you will not be disrespected like this and walk out calmnly.
