My H is out on at least a couple of these and I understand his status is "single". And no, it doesn't matter.
I got the usual stuff about ILYBINILWY, I want to fall in love again, I can't show D's how to be happy if I'm not, etc.
The good in focusing on yourself is that you become the woman you forgot you are. You find the strenght and courage to deal with whatever comes your way. You have a life to be valued, do that.
Did you ever see the movie "The Wedding Date"? There's a great line in there about forgetting the past and the pain and remembering what an incredible woman you are. If you haven't seen it, look it up. What he says is spot on.
The private message thing hasn't worked since I've been on this bb. You need to find people through FB.
