Are you also using the website that David and his wife Ruth created? It's www.crucible4points.com. David and Ruth participate in the blogs so it's possible to get feedback directly from them sometimes.
No, I haven't participated...looks interesting though.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.