I haven't made any attempts to reach out to her in a week. Any time we see each other, it's briefly in the morning when getting ready for work, or when she chooses to try to see me. So far, she hasn't contacted me yet to see about plans for dinner. I'm preparing my comments in case she does reach out. Otherwise, I think I may "accidently" forget about dinner plans and not go home until it's time to go to bed.
I don't know that I can get any more evidence of the affair. She's appears to be acting on the message that I intercepted... the one that stated she wanted to communication with me or the OM for a week. It'll be impossible to gather any evidence if this is true. Also, she'd then spend the week making up her mind... and once she makes a decision, she digs her heals in and doesn't waiver.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done
