ARGHHH!!!! H just called, first words out of his mouth are: so have you hired a lawyer yet? I said no. H said when are you going to? Are you going to keep the house, what are you going to do? H said "it's your divorce" then said "divorce #3"..
So if it's my divorce then why would it be divorce #3? I've only been married once.
I then said you get one, I'm not getting one. You get one and get it going. I said we go through this every Monday. And WE do, what is up with this!!! Every F'in Monday!!
Saturday he called me from his hunting stand to talk, didn't say anything except to answer my questions, yes, no, yes, no, yes, no...I said I'll call you tonight.
I didn't call him Saturday night becasue S fell asleep early. H calls me Sunday night on his way back from hunting to see why I didn't call H back on on Saturday night. We talked, H is coming over for dinner tonight. It was SS's B-day on Saturday so I'm making dinner for him. I asked H last night if H was coming and H said yes.
I cannot stand these Monday calls...he did try calling this morning, but I didn't answer it, so fool that I am picked it up now!!! It's the same crapp every fricking Monday. Then he goes on to ask "what's new in my life" at which point I said I have to go my boss needs me.
I'm at work, I can't talk, we're in cubicles, everybody can hear everything and I've told H this before. I guess tonight I'm going to have to ask him not to call me at work anymore. I will do it lovingly, but I just cannot deal with these calls anymore.
Arghhhhhhhhh!!!!
I just don't understand why we have to go through this every Monday. Is H trying to drve me nuts!! Why does he say this stuff. We have perfectly normal conversations every other day of the week except Monday's. H then asked me if I was hunting, I said probably, H said you should have went today. I asked H if it was windy at his job, H said yes it was and "I f****** hate it!!" My H hates his job and his life I think.
Any advice words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated. Right before H called I was thinking how nice it would be to not have to EVER deal with H again. To just have H out of my life. It felt good, too.
Now tonight he'll be civil and everything will be fine and probably for the rest of the week.
