That would be great, FM, but H is unwilling either to go to MC or even sit in a room with me and have anything but a trivial conversation. Anything having to do with parenting gets him defensive and aggresively abusive instantly. He laughs off the thought of even needing to discuss parenting issues. I know. I have been trying for months.
Of course I'm far beyond all of this now. I "thought" I was piecing a long time ago, but this has not been my focus for many months. You wouldn't know that perhaps because I"m mostly staying off the boards. I am completely looking toward what is best for my son - and have been in MC. And that means my S not seeing his mother verbally and emotionally abused. PERIOD.
