Taylor, I may be wrong, but I believe the private messages capability is not working for the forum.
Now about all of the insight into his babble. He's thinking out loud and they do tend to do that while in crisis. Why? Because he's bouncing off the walls in his mind and the only way to actually "think" is to "think out loud". You've actually seen both sides of the man, i.e., Dr. Jeckyll and Mr. Hyde. You'll see that more frequently as he continues to move forward in is crisis.
What about the credit cards? Are they in both names? If so, try to get your name removed off of the ones he uses the most. You do not want to get saddled w/his debt, especially if he moves out.
Check for free consults in the yellow pages. Set up an appointment and go ask them some questions. Write your questions down and have them ready for your appointment.
You most likely may want to change your user name on here to something else to protect yourself.
You need to now focus on YOU! You are the most important person in this crisis. You are the one that will need to protect yourself, because he's not going to do it.
Puppy, To get a better picture of replay, please go to the MLC Resources...HeartsBlessings has mapped all of the stages out for readers.
