I tried, I changed, but still am getting divorced!

[newmama]

Life is messy...how do we deal with the mess? Clean it, sort it, give it away?

Well what a weekend and it isn't done! S party will start in about an hour. Just waiting for stbxh to drop him off. Got a cute dinosaur cake at Costco and all I need to do is write his name on it!

Also made tomato onion filo tart and cowboy salsa (both recipes I shared with you, CW! Some good vegetarian options for some of my family)

The house is clean, smells great, looks festive with 1st year Sesame Street birthday decor!

OK so ziplining...good and bad. Good was that it was peaceful flying through the air, and it felt a lot slower than it looked! Bad was "stopping." And I am a quirky gal, truly am, so I started obsessing about my inability to stop or get stuck inthe middle of the line. We had awesome harnesses and were strapped in very tight! But we had to stop using our gloved hand to "gently" glide over the top of the line then pump it.

OK so I almost didn't do it! I was about to back out when a very sweet (and good looking) tour guide asked if I wanted to go tandem! I said SURE! He stopped for me and I got to experience it and it was terrific! The downside was I kept thinking "damn it- this should have been stbxh and I!!!!!&^%$@!)

Well the group I met with were fun and I will write some more about that later. I got a pic with the guy I went tandem with (and when I get the pics I will post them on my FB page). I was giggling thinking to myself "what a hot 21 year old! Maybe he was 22?) Finally, one of the women I was with asked him his age.

NINETEEN. That was just WRONG as they say! Yikes! Must have been like the coaches on Mindfull's son's soccer team!

haha! I drove down to hang with my friends at their BBQ. OK will write more reflection stuff later...