I feel that the conversation needs to happen tonight because she's asking for the week away. This has gone on long enough and it's time to take some action. If our past breakups (pre-marriage) are any indication, she's getting closer to making some decision. I want to get the ball rolling as soon as possible before she's made up her mind.

When I talk to her and out the affair, is there any reason to go into details? I have no absolute proof a physical affair, just the fact that they communicate a lot and that she's already admitted that there's feelings for him. I guess I don't see the point in telling her all the details of how I know.

M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done