I believe so as well. People are afraid of upsetting or making the WAS angry and therefore, they are paralyzed to act in the way that is most beneficial to them and their marriage. They think they will force WAS out the door and that's the last thing they want to do. However, it is only until they are willing to risk that that real progress can be made by them! They need to think about the self respect issue. Why should THEY be worried about WAS getting angry or upset? WAS isn't worried about making THEM angry or upset!
