I am willing to work on my marriage and changes that I need to make for your benefit.. quite a lot of things about the way I participate here I want to change for you and for the better. But we BOTH have work to do here... And you can't do that frolicing around with a predator to our marriage whispering in your hear in secret...
Here's some stuff from Dr Phil :
It is unfair to compare a new, exciting, taboo fantasy relationship to one you've been in for years where there are kids, bills to pay, a house to run and noses to wipe. That is a ridiculous comparison.
In order to resolve your relationship, contact with "the other person" must be cut off 100 percent. You can't work on dealing with the consequences of the affair while you're still having it.
