It sounds like there were some positives from last night.
And it seems like you handled the less than positive areas like a champ!
You certainly handled the picture thing very well. I don't think I would have been able to do that. I would have said that I don't want anything in this house that OW had a hand in. But that would not be an action that would move closer to goal. Good for you to take the high road.
Was there any progress on a solution to the bedtime issue that you two can work on together?