What is wrong with being the rescuer? They are in pain. They are confussed. what is wrong with helping them?
Simple, Par. It's not good for you (doesn't work, makes you look weak and supplicating, and therefore unattractive to them) and it's not good for them, either (doesn't force them to deal with the natural consequences of their poor behavior, and so they learn nothing).
Other than that, it's a wonderful strategy.
Puppy
Ah, there's the saucy response that makes me giggle ... Thanks for the laugh!!!
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10