I thought that after telling the owner what was going on (while they are away next week)and his laibilities "since the affair will implode w/ 99% certainty", after they come back I'll need to confront OM. (stay away from my wife and D. You are not welcome in my family"
Rather than do it right in front of her (they are in the same department), I thought having OM paged to an office would make it "public" without being "public"
I'm not saying I'm right. Just explaining my motive/intent.
