(((hugs))) RW, this is part of our journey as mothers...recognizing that things happen to them that we can't protect them from. A marriage that isn't working at some point is outside of our circle of control. Just like the many challenges that our children will face in their lives, we can't protect them from this. All we can do is support them, listen, and be good role models for dealing with crisis and adversity. I know you know all this and are doing an awesome job smile .

I echo the other wishes for you: be gentle and kind to yourself...take it one step at a time.


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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.: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.