My H just called from Afghanistan. We were courteous with one another. He asked how my IC visits were going and I let him know that they were going good and that I am learning more and more about me each day. He then asked me if I was going to tell him what that was (what I learned)....so I did. He then said that he was glad to see that "I figured it out.."
Right after that, he says he is just not sure if he can be happy with me, but that he is not going anywhere and that we will continue to talk about us.
I am so very sad. He no longer uses terms of endearment when he refers to me. It was always,: honey, sweetie, babe.. Now he calls me by my first name. It is annoying and appears to be an indication that he is moving forward with the Divorce as he wants. So very sad.....
I know I need to get out of the house. So, I am either going to the driving range or maybe lite shopping. However, I did buy a ticket (I did this online) to see a movie this afternoon (new kiddie movie - to make me laugh). Thank u TH for your help. I hope you have a great afternoon.
Last edited by ShellDoll; 07/11/1004:28 PM.
Me 41/H 49 M 12yrs No Kids Bomb 1/10/2010 H Deployed The three great essentials to achieve anything worth while are, first, hard work; second, stick-to-itiveness; third, common sense. T. Edison
