I'd be willing to bet you any amount of money that he has already seen an atty, and yes, he does seem like his recent "good boy" behavior is part of being coached.
You should absolutely get some good legal counsel, and you have NO need to apologize for it or explain it to him in any other way than "Considering where we are right now, I decided that it would be wise to begin to protect myself."
Are you saying that you never saw one? Your remark here:
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I don't know about the legalities of what might happen if he says he's done and wants a D.