Pretty hard for someone to fight for you if they haven't lost you or at least wonder if they have. Fighting for something usually means that the something they are fighting for is possibly out of reach and may be lost or not in their total power to have at will.
Pretty hard to see what you meant to accomplish with this comment.
In my case, the divorce is final in weeks, and at any rate any number of horrible circumstances could befall any one of us at any minute, and it takes strength to weather some of these storms. Nothing is in our total power to have at will.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-