This is exactly why you don't want to get a divorce right now.. tehre are way too many open wounds...
The script you have there is quite good...
I think Phil McGraw has something good too..let me have alook...
Note : Try not to make him out to be the villain if he's willing to work with you... Right now he likley wants to be OUT of the hotseat... Hold him accountable, but don't beat him over the head with it, particularly if he's willing to end the divorce proceedings until a later time... and I don't mean postpone, I mean put a STOP to them until this is more definite