I think it was Sage who said she composed her thoughts in a word document before she posted....that is a very good idea, one that I am going to use, also. Thanks Sage!
It dawned on me this morning, that when H and I had our talk last Thursday night, we were both in the EXACT same spots as we were on the day I found out and told H to leave....almost like we were continuing from where we left off....is that weird or what?
Something else sunk in today, my H’s need for his own space, as in his mail, his time, he’s asserting his independence or maybe it’s that I finally see it and can accept it, that H isn’t being mean, it’s his MEness that H wants me to see and respect. Just as I want H to respect ME and my MEness. Just another “I get it” light bulb that came on today for me.
