Been doing some reading again this morning here I learn a lot from all the threads) and wanted to throw a few things out for you all

I noticed that WAW's send odd and conflicting messages quite often. Mine doesn't text me much other than inane bits of daily life or "required by boundary" info regarding Calla.

However, abd it sometimes gets to me, she has a habit of changing her Blackberry Msng status. I'm not syre if she realizes that everyone in her contacts sees it.

Thought I'd throw the last dozen out here for input-
(these all went up in the last three weeks since her trip w/"Amanda"

June 22-25
Thinking only makes it worse
Things happen for a reason
My expectations are too high
Vacation can't come soon enough
July 2-10
Wishing the best for you babe!
I can't win
You are my sunshine
Yes I am getting divorced
FML (acronym for her favorite new saying- F@#k My Life)
Let's just see...

These are all I have as far as gauging her mental state.
And it doesn't look good, does it?