You sound really in control, G. I am really sorry he said no to working on the relationship. Were you surprised? I imagine it would have been very hard to hear. So dissapointing. How did you react? Did you say nothing? I suppose that means you wont be bringing up R for a while? I like to think of you two sitting there listening to music. Quality time. Friendship is the first step, I suppose, to any future realationship, be it coparenting or something more... Sorry to be nosey, but how do you greet each other when he comes over? A hug? A smile? How does that side of things work? And...last question... how many nights per week would you say WH stays over?
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369
