WAW Wants to Be Alone

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Do not see her today. Avoid it! Avoid it! Avoid it! You are not ready b/c you are very emotional right now, upset, mad, hurt, p!ssed...all understandable. But interacting with her while these emotions are so fresh and raw will NOT help you work this out. So...look in the paper, find something going on in your city and get out of the house to do it. Or go to a friends house in the next town for the day. Or climb a tree and look for a rare bird all day - whatever! But you must not meet with her today. WHEN she calls to line up this meeting: "W, I had plans already for today so I can't meet with you - and I really can't talk now either b/c I'm getting ready to go. We'll talk later." And that is all. Please, let that be all.

The objectives for today are:
* Settle yourself down
** Let her stew in the wonder of what you are going to do

That's all for today. We'll help you deal with the next step after you get through today.

OH! One more thing - if you think you're going to call her and talk about all of this - take your mobile phone apart. Put the battery in your sock drawer and your handset in the trunk of you car. Stay off of that phone!

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