What I deal with today:

H shows up unnounced, claims to have called me and left a msg - never got one.

comes over and makes demands - i do not answer the door

he claims he has no keys to his truck- loads all the car seats from the truck to the car he is dropping off(my) demands keys so i tell him it will cost him money (he has not given money to us)

h says come over monday to pick up money - i shake my head no

h pulls keys from his pocket leaves my car and drives off in his truck

i texted - good to know priorities are still the same
car is not fixed still has no a/c

later on as both kids are asleep i have time to decompress from the day.

i texted him - i hope one day you realized the pain and destruction you have caused me and the kids

he texts back - why don't you bring them over to me - it's your fault i don't see them...

WTF???????????????????????????/////


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline