And you are supposed to sit and wait for her to be ready to make that move? I'm with the fellas who suggest you give her the speech. "W, I have decided that I will not live in an open M. Your actions are disrespectful to our M and I will not support what you are doing. I will interview lawyers first thing Monday morning and set about ending this intolerable arrangement." Then don't take calls, don't answer texts and don't visit her at work. Goodness don't go on that trip. Take yourself out to update your wardrobe, spiff up, and GAL. You - you - you have some healing to do, don't you MC? She's not the only one who has been through the worst nightmare. You have, too, and you need to process the next steps, too. Waiting for her to tell you how it's going to be is not an option.
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I agree. Love her and yourself enough to stand strong for your marriage vows.
Originally Posted By: lookin4support
Two days later, I packed all her stuff and was ready to take it to her when I called a Christian MC and talked through my actions with him. He talked me down, which I feel is what I wanted
Be careful when it seems God is telling you that what you, (and your fears and desires), want you to do, is what God wants you to do. In my experience, it is when every bone in my body screams "Noooooooo!" that I am really hearing what God is telling me.
You have been handed some tough blows. I am really sorry that you are going through this.
