These two guys have given you the best advice that you can recieve. Leave it alone. Work on fixing yourself. Man, get in shape. Other man? It doesn't matter really, you have history behind you. Change your ways. Be a man and do the right thing but don't pursue. Fix yourself, she isn't going to far. She will see your change. Don't worry about if she does or doesn't but she will check up on you and get off the damn computer games.
