WAW Wants to Be Alone

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I think you ought to know what you're dealing with, MC, and that includes due diligence to find out if there is another person in your marriage. Why? B/c it matters. It will make a difference really for every next move you make. It will make a difference in terms of the the filter you will have to put her words through. It will make a difference as to the extent that you must protect yourself (physical, financial).

Can't think of too many times I've read on here about spouses who volunteered this kind of info - about having an A. Mostly it goes the other way - they totally deny - even before they are asked! Your wife cannot be your source of intel.

Look around. No one is bullet proof. If there is another person, you'll find it.

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