Not saying that it EVER/NEVER happens. I'm not saying that I'm waiting for it either.

My wishes are wishes, period. Naive? Not really, I've learned that nothing is as it seems..good or bad.

TBH I couldn't blame her anyway. Even though it would hurt like hell.

I'm not comfortable about "checking"...for one the only real way to do it is to hire a PI...because if I was to do it and got caught I'd instantly be labeled a "Stalker".

Checking phone records has been done...unfortunately we have unlimited texting and it does not show on our bill to the number.